"We must not, in trying to think about how we can make a big difference,
ignore the small daily difference we can make which, over time, add up to big
differences that we often cannot foresee." - Marian Wright Edelman

Monday, March 31, 2008

Lydia's Story

“We are guilty of many errors and many faults but our worst
crime is abandoning the children, neglecting the fountain of life. Many of the
things we need can wait. The child cannot..."
-Gabriella
Mistral


9q34.3. You've probably never heard of 9q34.3, and unfortunately for Lydia and what appears to be approximately only 50 other children in the entire WORLD you won't ever hear about it again. 9q34.3 is a rare chromosome abnormality in which a part of one of Lydia's 9th chromosome has been deleted.

What exactly does this mean? For Lydia it may mean she will most likely be mild to severely retarded. She has low muscle tone and requires physical therapy several times a week as well as requiring speech therapy. Despite this, Lydia may never walk or talk. She is at high risk for infection and seizures. She has already faced 3 bouts of pneumonia, one which required hospitalization. She has also been hospitalized for a kidney infection, and most recently after becoming ill and having severe bouts of vomiting,which at times left her unconscious for almost a minute. She is now facing the possibility of having a feeding tube placed. The feeding tube will prevent the recurrent lung infections she has incurred from liquids aspirating into her lungs during feedings. Lydia was born with a heart defect, natal teeth and could still face growth retardation, lung problems and a whole other list of problems. This April Lydia will celebrate her first year of life.
Most likely you've heard of Down's Syndrome. For families with Down's there are many organizations for parents to reach out to for support. Fundraising is happening continually and there is a wealth of information out there for families and supporters. For Lydias family, support in the medical and public communities is almost non-existent. For Lydia's family, the 50 other families facing this rare syndrome, and other chromosome disorders like
9q34.3 it can be a lonely journey with very few places to turn to for support or answers. Additionally funding for research into 9q34.3 is almost non-existent, and programs to benefit the families of children with 9q34.3 and other rare chromosome disorders is even less.
This month I am donating my money to Chromosome Deletion Outreach. CDO provides family matching (3 different networking programs), an electronic newsletter (those without e-mail are provided with a mailed version), listserv, library access to a medical advisory board and website family sharing pages. In 2007 they introduced a mathematical algorithm through their new web application -what they believe is to be the first of its kind - to finally accurately track karyotypes, learn more about the genes affected by these rare chromosome rearrangements and hopefully develop effective treatments.
The CDO relies entirely on donations and almost all administration and management are done on a volunteer basis. Unfortunately for the CDO there is so little information out there about rare chromosome disorders and their organization that the majority of donations come from the families of these children. Families who themselves are struggling with thousand of dollars in medical bills.
Lydia's family has found that the CDO and another organization out of Europe, Unique have been a life saver. Putting Lydia's mom in contact with other families, providing up to date information, and making the journey a little less lonely. For more information about 9q34.3, other rare chromosome disorders, the CDO, Unique or how you can help click on any of the links above.

You may also support Chromosome Deletion Outreach's many family programs and services through the purchase of this beautiful Swarovski crystal & pearl bracelet designed by Kelly's Pearls of Hope. Each bracelet is accented with sterling silver and a unique CDO charm.
For more info please click on the bracelet link. Bracelets come in S,M,L and special sizing by request.

Viewer mail

Here are a couple letters I recieved recently. This type of response makes it even more worth while!

Hi,
I learned about your blog through the Chromosome Deletion Outreach online support group. I just wanted to say I think what you're doing is so great! Sometimes it seems like there are so many organizations, charities and people in need, it's hard to know who to help or where to start. This way you are able to help many of them as well as learn about them with your family and raise awareness. You've really inspired me to start doing something like this.And thank you for supporting CDO, it (along with Unique) have been such a great support for me. I have a 20 month old daughter with a chromosome disorder. Because her disorder is so rare and each case so unique the doctor's haven't been able to tell us how this will affect her. At least this way we can be in contact with other families to learn about what we 'might' have to expect, have a place to talk about our concerns or just vent!, and to share our stories and inspire one another.

All the best,
S.K. (name has been withheld to protect privacy)


Wow!!! Lydias story brought me to tears....mainly because I know exactly where she is coming from! Our son Jacob was diagnosed with 17q21.31 deletion syndrome which like Lydia is very rare. As of now there are 25 reported cases worldwide, and VERY little information about it. But, through CDO and Unique I have been able to contact other families and share our experiences. Through those groups, other families of Chromosome 17 disorders, and my son I was inspired to begin a online support group for families of Chromosome 17 disorders through Yahoo. Members started flowing in slowly but surely. Now we have www.chromo17.com , which is in the process of becoming a non-profit organization. We are working extremely hard on chromo17 but it is not yet complete, but you are more than welcome to drop by and read our family stories. You'll notice my son on the top left hand side.

I could go on and on but Lydias story said it all...and I agree 110%. It is not only hard finding out that your child has a disorder, but it extremely hard when there is little to no information about it. The majority of rare chromosome disorders do not know what to look for in the future, we just take it day by day, and treat the symptoms as they come along.

I am making a difference by creating a place for chromosome 17 families to find information and support, which costs time and money. In closing I would like to ask that you go to these wonderful groups and read the family stories, and do whatever you can to help support these wonderful groups, every penny helps. If you can't afford to make a donation but have access to the internet then you can raise money for CDO by searching online please go to www.goodsearch.com , enter the charity Chromosome Deletion Outreach, then click verify and start searching and/or shopping!! It's that easy! Everytime you search or shop goodsearch will donate money to CDO. These groups are important to us parents in so many ways, they give us knowledge, hope, and so much more. What can you do to make a difference?

Sincerely,
Jacqueline Robertson
Chromo17-President
www.chromo17.com
info@chromo17.com

Monday, March 10, 2008

The Pajama Program

Every night Todd and I help the kids get their pajamas on, tuck them into bed and read them a story. It's one of our favorite times of the day. When I heard about The Pajama Program, I immediately knew I wanted to make a donation, but I felt like I wanted to do more than just that.


The Pajama Program was founded in 2001. It's mission is to deliver new pajamas and books to the most neediest of children around the world. These are the children in shelters, group homes, foster care, and other temporary living quarters while they await adoption. Many of these children have been neglected, abused and/or abandoned. Some of these children have never owned a pair of pajamas or a book before.

It was with this in mind that Todd and I decided we were going to have a drive for The Pajama Program. We put together a flyer. Todd used his February money to pay for the flyers in hopes that by creating the flyers we could turn his money into much more to help these children. Our kids school graciously agreed to allow us to have the drive there, and to circulate the flyers to all the parents. The drive is scheduled to be held the week of March 24. In honor of the program the staff and the kids are being encouraged to wear their PJ's on March 25.

For more information about The Pajama Program, how you can help, or hosting a Pajama Drive click on the link above. Anyone who would like to donate items in our drive my contact me a honeybee03@wi.rr.com.

Friday, March 7, 2008

An update on Patti the Hippo

With our help the kids school raised enough money to sponsor Patti the hippo at the Milwaukee County Zoo. For our contribution of $31 in pennies the school gave the stuffed Patti the hippo to Cole and Gavin as well as the I sponsored an animal decal. The schools name will be placed on the All in the Family Donor board for 12 months. The children will also be invited to a sponsor's only "Animal Safari" event at the zoo where they will be given behind the scenes tours.
We also were given a little more info on Patti, her mate Pinky and their "baby" Puddles. The kids are really looking forward to seeing Patti as soon as weather permits.

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Family reaching out to family

Here is a recent email I recieved...

Hey,
Just thought I'd let you know what we are doing with our 'change for change'. We are pooling our family change and a bit more for my brother, Mike, who got laid off about a month or two back. (shortly after Christmas) We are taking it to my dad to pass off to him tomorrow. This way, Mike can't refuse 'cuz he won't know who it's from! Thanks for your idea.
Blessings...